A lifetime search for "why?" is often met with silence. Opinions, memories, and mementos become exhibits in a museum that doesn't exist, and as we grow we learn that many attempts to save those who force themselves to be doomed are often futile. This is clearly shown in the book "The Virgin Suicides". In this, a group of young, neighborhood boys watch 5 girls deteriorate into ghosts only to haunt them for the rest of their …showed first 75 words of 667 total…

…showed last 75 words of 667 total…Tab/>In the end there is no way to bring back those days. There is no way to change the past. After all this time and all of the searching and pain, the men realize this. They can finally see not the sadness or mystery of it but the complete selfishness. If anyone in this story suffered, it was them. They loved these girls who were too blind and self-concerned to see it.